Sunday, February 7, 2010

Finances: The Education Many of Us Lack

Have you noticed that some people can make $200,000 a year and still be in trouble if they miss one paycheck?

I've been learning more about finances lately. Mostly I've been shocked by how much I didn't know. I don't think I'm alone in my ignorance, though, so I'm hoping to encourage all of you to educate yourselves about finances.

Sure, money isn't the most important thing. Maybe I sound like a "penny pincher" or "money grubber" to some just for showing an interest in managing money. However, there are some really important reasons to make sure your money and finances are taken care of.

  • One of the top reasons for divorce is money trouble.
  • Jobs aren't as secure nowadays as they used to be.
  • It doesn't look like the government will have any money left by the time many of us retire, and if we're wise with our own money they shouldn't have to take care of us anyway.
  • Being financially secure brings peace of mind.
  • Taking control of your money keeps others from taking advantage of you.
  • Do you really want your kids to take care of you financially in your old age? I don't.
  • Bankruptcy is a terrible experience to go through (so I've heard).
There are plenty of other reasons to take control of your finances, but those are what I came up with at the moment.

It's amazing the only education I had about money growing up was a book in elementary school telling me to put money in a savings account! If you read that book, guess what? It's a lot more complicated! Savings accounts don't make enough interest to keep up with inflation. So if you just stick all your money in a savings account, you're actually losing money! Crazy, but true!

Time to educate yourself! Read books, go to free seminars, talk with someone who knows what they're talking about (and who isn't just trying to sell you something).

Here are some books to try to get you started:
This book, "The Right Way to Hire Financial Help" by Charles A. Jaffe, was recommended to me by a Ph.D. in Family, Consumer, and Human Development at USU. I checked it out at my local library, but they also have it at the university library.



"The Total Money Makeover" by Dave Ramsey. Sounds like a marketing pitch, but the book is filled with sound advice. It's like how healthy eating and exercise are the way to get healthy, not the "miracle pill." This book is the diet and exercise guidebook. Available at the library, though you'll need to place a hold around here.



"America's Cheapest Family," by Steve and Annette Economides. Proof that it isn't the size of income you take home, but how you manage it. Found in a library near you! (Or at least the one near me.)

You can also go to the Financial Planning for Women website. There are links to all sorts of resources, and you don't have to be a woman to use it.


Life Insurance. Sounds like something out of "The Death of a Salesman." It's important though, here's why:

Let's try a scenario. The husband is to be the breadwinner, the wife's plan is to raise the kids and run the house. You end up with a mortgage of $100,000 and three kids, the youngest being 5 years old.

You or your spouse dies.

The remaining partner will probably want to be able to stay with the kids. They'll need comfort because they lost a parent. The remaining parent will want time to grieve and will probably want to make sure their bond with their children remains strong.

No life insurance: Someone has to work to pay the bills. That $100,000 mortgage has to be paid! Staying with your kids may not be an option, even though it's probably the best thing for everyone.

Life insurance: Your life insurance money comes. You planned for enough to pay off your debts and to pay for living expenses until your kids are out of the house. You get to raise your kids and don't have all the financial worries you would have otherwise.

Sure, it could be a waste of money if you don't die, but you can get good policies for far far less than you shell out for car insurance each month, and you may never get in a car accident either.

Here are some links to information about life insurance, all are from the Dave Ramsey website and basically explain why term life insurance is the way to go.
Term Life Insurance
Term vs. Whole Life Insurance
Cash Value Insurance

Whatever you do, educate yourself about finances. Be wary of people with alternative motives. Get advice from trustworthy experts. Make your life easier and more peaceful. Please. I want you all to be happy and successful!

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Actual Conversation Over Lunch...

Lydia: Want to go watch the basketball game tonight?

Kyle: Actually I think I'd rather see how the vorticity-velocity formulation of the Navier-Stokes equations performs under finite-volume discretization.


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What can I say about this?

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Cutest Baby Ever!!!


That's my opinion!


video

At least until I have one of my own.

Thursday, January 14, 2010

50th Post!

Sounds exciting, doesn't it?

Kyle has now begun doctoral school. This semester he is taking a math class, a physics class, and an engineering class. From what he says he is already enjoying them all and likes the professors as well. He wants to write the best PIV code in his engineering class and has already given it a lot of thought. (If you don't know what that is, I'm not going to tell you, because I don't think I could explain it. Let's just say it involves computer clusters and fluid flow... and sometimes lasers.)

We thought Kyle would be publishing three papers in place of a dissertation. His professor expects ten instead... something about playing the academic game to better feed your family. Ah well, he'll be fine. We also thought he'd be getting paid more, $900 more each month, but instead it's only $500 more each month. At least it makes up for the rent increase (our rent was really low at our last place because we were managers), so now our income will basically be the same as it was before, and that's okay. Mostly because of my super awesome budgeting skills! (More on this later.)

Kyle's first project will be measuring the viscosity of molten uranium at various temperatures. (I just love telling people about it. It's fun to watch their eyebrows hit the ceiling.)

Kyle wants to move into the lab with the professors other grad students, but there won't be room until May. In the mean time he'll stay in his old office. The lab is located in a brand new building and has lots of windows (light!!!) as well as cell phone reception, so we will both be glad for his move.

As for me... I've got a cold... again. We think I had the cold, then it hung out in Kyle's body for a while, then manifested itself when he was weakened by late nights, then mutated, then came back to me. Plausible?

The past few months I've been keeping a pretty strict budget. In the past we would budget for savings and expenses and then just let the rest go, but with the increase in rent and the desire to keep up our emergency fund I spent the last few months being quite careful. I'm happy to report we didn't tap into our emergency fund at all last month! That made us feel good, and more secure. Now that I've been strictly budgeting a few months, I'm starting to like it. I also read a few books about money. Now I'm all excited. The thing about budgeting is that it kind of frees up money that was just disappearing before. Also, it allows you to save for long term goals. Yesterday I figured out we could make a trip to Hungary in 2014 by just saving $64 a month (computed without interest or inflation)... now that is exciting!

I'm taking some free classes once a month from the university. It's called Financial Planning for Women. They had a drawing when we took a survey and I won an hour of one on one financial advice from the professor! Now we've just got to set up a time and figure out what to cover.

Other exciting homemaking achievements are that I took advantage of the case lot sale at Smith's last week. We now have a large supply of peanut butter and spaghetti sauce (the staples of life!). I also tallied all of the ingredients we would need for a three month food supply, now I just have to collect the items... preferably at a good price. Now in case you're thinking I'm a genius (ha!) I didn't come up with this stuff myself. I read books from the library. There is so much knowledge out there about anything you'd like to know, you just have to know where to look!

I've been trying to help a bit with Jesse's upcoming wedding. In case you haven't heard, Jesse is getting married! The girl's name is Hannah. (This has already caused confusion for Kyle and me because I have a sister named Hannah.) They seem to be a great pair and they both seem very happy together. Yay for marriage! Marriage is great!

In other news, the next SLSW concert is coming up on February 9th. You can find the details on the website. We are planning to play the first movement of the Hindemith Symphony, but the rest should be lighter fare(? fair? faire?). Anyway, you're all welcome to attend, but only if you enjoy band concerts. ;)

That's about it from me. I hope you're all doing well. In fact, why not leave me a comment so I know how you're doing... and that you're out there... hello? Somebody... ...?

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Thesis and Thanksgiving, Ikea and In-N-Out

Haven't posted in a while...

here's why:


Kyle's Thesis Defense went swimmingly

Yes, that is his thesis...

Here's the high-tech room he presented in.

A little bribery for the judges. (Kyle made that cheesecake himself.)

My attempt to capture the crowd. We ran out of chairs!

The day after defending Kyle flew out to Portland for SC09.




I spent time in Orem with my family and sent this gigantic piece of chocolate to Erik in the MTC.

Lucky for me and my sisters In-N-Out opened in Orem that weekend.

After our lunch we had a girls day at Ikea. My sisters helped me scope out the sofas.

Kyle came home with only two days of class before Thanksgiving.
We went back to Orem and helped fix dinner. It was fun and a huge task!



Here are a couple of the Thanksgiving dinner victims.


Sadie is already 3 months old, and still very cute.

Our car hit a milestone on the way home... it's a Honda.

Kyle set up our first Christmas tree we've ever had.

It's 4' tall.

I pulled out all the ornaments I've been collecting over the years.

Kyle took some artsy photos of the decorated tree.

Cute.

We put Grandma H.'s presents under it... they fit so nicely.

Friday, November 13, 2009

It's Over!!!

The thesis defense is over!

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Kyle in the News

Some of you may remember a previous post about Kyle being a finalist in the SC09 storage challenge. Well now Kyle is in the news for it. Here is a clipping from the Herald Journal of yesterday.


The school paper has also published an article about him which you can read here. It goes more in depth about the project, has a picture, and a quote from Kyle. Exciting stuff! I am so proud him. Although I'll be glad when SC09 is all over because he'll have more time again. :)